Sunday, April 25, 2010

"Well, gentlemen, life is just one blessed thing after another!" C. Maurice Lombardi (and a song quiz)

http://scholarship.rice.edu/handle/1911/12842

My great-great grandfather Cesar Maurice Lombardi came Switzerland to the United States.  He first lived in New Orleans, and then went to Texas, where he worked in several business, before moving to Portland, Oregon to work for the Gordon Grain company.  From 1913 to 1916, at the request of my grandmother, he wrote a series of letters to his grandchildren (my grandfather Cesar Lombardi Barber among them) telling his life story.  These letters were then printed in 1948 with enough copies for all the children, grandchildren, and great children alive at the time.  Last year, the Lombardi's family gathered in Houston for a reunion and my dad lent his copy to the Woodson Research Center and Special Collections at Rice University. Ceasar M. Lombardi met the man who gave Rice University his name in New York City and was was instrumental in getting located it located in Houston, Texas. The Archives only had an old old xerox of it, so the opportunity to scan a clean copy for its own records was highly attractive. Some vicissitudes happened, but he got it back both as the printed volume and a scan for the rest of use just this week.

There is much wonderful material in it, including much about life in Portland, Oregon from 1898-1906, but I'm just going to give you background on the title of this entry. It came from a man that Mr. Lombardi worked with as editor of the Galveston Daily News. Mr. Briggs wrote it in 1948 to my great grandfather Alvin B. Barber reflecting on his memories of Mr. Lombardi. Briggs wrote that Lombardi was always interested in the young men with whom he worked on the paper. In addition, he was sympathectic to the pressures of putting out an interesting and accurate newspaper. Mr Briggs, by 1948, a senior officer of the First National Bank in Dallas, Texas, wrote of him:

It was Mr. Lombardi's courtliness of manner toward everyone and his kindly consideration of, and ingenuous interest in, young men of his staff, that attracted me to him first. In diffusing the spirit of these rare virtues, I never knew him to fail or to tire, regardless of provocation or disappointment. He met every situation, however difficult, with the equanimity of a philosopher, displayed so vividly in his familiar little phrase, "Well, gentlemen, life is just one blessed thing after another!"
{[Need to get formal citation to this volume]}

I love the double-entrendres in the phrase. Is blessed, a blessing, or a reverse use of blessed for damned. His letter show that he experienced hardship, success, true love, and exhaustion. He moved a lot and knew that he lost friends as a result. And though he was a Texan for most of his adult life, he never much like the place, it was too hot for him who was raised in the Swiss Alps, so he always considered his home in Berkeley California, his homestead.

And in one of those odd coincidences common in my family, my paternal grandfather was born in Berkeley, my mother graduated from high school from Berkeley High, and my brother lived there for a while.

The overlapping paths of people in Portland, Oregon are even more complicated, so I'll just show you a nice picture from around the time this clan of my family lived there:

Anyone want to guess the name of the song that might be connected to this car?

Saturday, April 17, 2010

A Puzzler and A Game about Bryn Mawr College and Lucy Lombardi Barber

[updated 4/19/2010, in response to some corrections]
One of the re-occuring patterns in my family that strike others as odd, but actually makes sense if you think about the social spheres in which both my mother's and my father's parents operated, almost sounds like one of those odd puzzles. My mother, my grandmother, and my great grandmother, all went to Bryn Mawr College, but they were not direct descendants. How is this possible, the puzzler asks?

The answer is that my father and my paternal grandfather both married women who went to Bryn Mawr and my paternal great grandmother went to Bryn Mawr. (I went to Haverford rather than Bryn Mawr, a story for a different forum).

Some of you may associate Bryn Mawr with the quote of M. Carey Thomas that "only our failures marry." My distant memory suggest that it is important to read the rest of the text surrounding this quote. As I recall, it was more a statement meant to imply only our failures JUST marry and raise children; others, marry, raise children, and stay active in their profession and their community.

I will focus here on Lucy Lombardi, later Lucy Lombardi Barber, who did marry, but was hardly a failure. She is pictured above with me in 1967.

Lucy Lombardi graduated in 1904. As indicated by the Program from Bryn Mawr from 1905, she came to Bryn Mawr with considerable education first in Portland, Oregon, and then later at Miss. Shipley's Miss Baldwin's School (a prep school across from Bryn Mawr College)


Thanks to some digitization projects we can see what these places looked like:
Here is one of the halls at Bryn Mawr:

As was common in such schools, women published literary magazines. Below is my great-grandmother's take on Tennyson's poem about the old clock:



I like the reference to her Waterbury watch as the new measure of time, but have not had time to trace down the reference. [see comments below for information] Otherwise, literary comments are welcome; she is not around to be sensitive about criticism, and had a good sense of humor so probably welcomed it.

Finally, a little game that others can help me with: One one of the mysteries of the Overrepresented Family is when people first met. Likewise, I am curious about the networks within which my great grandmother was active in. So here's just a raw list from the 1905 Program of people who would overlapped at Bryn Mawr with Lucy Lombardi. If you know who someone is, or have a guess of how that adds to the connection, put it in the comments. All names come from here The Program of 1905:[list is by no means inclusive, indeed it is quixotic]

Helen Adams Wilson, pg. 200
Evelyn Walker, pg. 199
Clara Louise Whipple Wade, pg 198
Alice Goddard Waldo, pg. 198
Eloise Ruthven Tremain, pg. 197
Helen Whithill Turner Flexner, pg. 196
Agnes Maitland Sinclair, pg. 193
Edna Aston Shearer, pg. 192
Elizabeth Shepley Sergeant, pg. 192
Emma Dunwoody Roberts, pg. 189
Marion Reilly, pg. 189
Helen Jackson Raymond, pg. pg. 189
Lucy Rawson, pg. 188
Louis(?) Lyman Peck, pg 187
Marrion Parris, pg. 187
Marion Edwards Park, 187

[oops, bored. Skipping to the A's
Maria Hawes Albee, pg. 152
Alice Anthony, pg. 153
Eleanora Frances Bliss, pg. 156
Elizabeth Middleton Bryan, pg. 158
Mary Wiley Cameron, pg. 159
Amy Lilley Clapp, pg. 169
Katherine Innes Cook, pg. 162.

Some obvious family connections come with
Bertha Havens Putnam, pg. 188
Mary Skerry Rockwell, pg. 190
oops see comments for correction

Correct and comment away!

Lucy G.